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		<title>Children Not Wanted in Mosques?</title>
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by Sumaya Bezrati
Today  I read someone&#8217;s status message that was criticizing children&#8217;s  misbehavior in the mosque (albeit jokingly) but it still struck a nerve  with me. This would be the 4th status message about this very topic that  I have read this Ramadan.
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<p>by Sumaya Bezrati</p>
<p>Today  I read someone&#8217;s status message that was criticizing children&#8217;s  misbehavior in the mosque (albeit jokingly) but it still struck a nerve  with me. This would be the 4th status message about this very topic that  I have read this Ramadan.</p>
<p>When did the Ummah become this  intolerant of children in the mosque?</p>
<p>I  love going to the mosque. It brings a sense of ease and peace over me  that no matter how I hard try I can never replicate by praying at home.  But I have stopped going. In fact, except for three times, I haven&#8217;t  been in over two years. Because I&#8217;m tired. I don&#8217;t want to see people  rolling their eyes at my daughter. I don&#8217;t want to hear lectures from  ladies who &#8220;couldn&#8217;t concentrate on their prayers.&#8221; So I continue to  pray at home and I long for the day when I will be able to return to the  mosque, child in tow.</p>
<p>Most mosques in America today have  special rooms dedicated for mothers with children. However, I truly  believe that the creation of these &#8220;special&#8221; rooms is actually a  disservice to both our mothers and children. These rooms have taught our  children that going to the mosque is about running around with your  friends and screaming at the top of their lungs. I truely believe that  if children are allowed into the main musella from a young age they will  learn the proper behavior in a mosque. Furthermore, most of these rooms  are not wired for sound or video and therefore the mothers have no idea  when the prayer is starting, finishing, or in session. Therefore, we  end up just praying by ourselves and don&#8217;t learn anything from sermons  (because we can&#8217;t hear them!)</p>
<p>When I ask the parents of  the most well-behaved children in the mosque for tips and tricks, their  answer is always the same. That they brought their children weekly since  their children were babies, and so overtime their children got used to  the mosque and behaved accordingly. You can not expect to wait until  your child is at an age when they are old enough to sit still for the  whole sermon to suddenly bring them to the mosque. If we do wait, by  that age we may have already lost our children.  We need to instill a  love of Islam and the masjid in the hearts of our children from an early  age.</p>
<p>I once read a suggestion from a well-meaning sister  who asked, &#8220;Why don&#8217;t mothers leave their children with other family  members or take turns with other mothers watching the group of kids.&#8221;  Firstly, it is a mistake to assume that ANY mother has the support of  family. Some people are isolated from family and good friends. Some  people are single mothers. Additionally, where does one meet good Muslim  friends, who they can perhaps work out a babysitting schedule with?  Why, at the mosque, of course!</p>
<p>Bringing  our children to the mosque is also important for raising our children  according to the Sunnah. The Prophet (may God&#8217;s peace and blessings be  upon him) often prayed with his granddaughter Umamah on his shoulders.  His attitude towards children was always kind and merciful. In fact, one  time while the Prophet was leading prayers in the mosque, he heard a  child crying and so he shortened the prayer simply on the grounds that  he knew that the cries of the child would make the mother nervous. So to  keep the mother from growing anxious, he ended the prayers promptly.  Furthermore, we all cherish the hadith that the Prophet used to let his  grandchildren play on his back as he prayed. Yet, we still want to be  hard-hearted towards children and claim that they upset our  concentration in prayer.</p>
<p>&#8220;None of you is truly a believer  until you wish for your brother what you wish for yourself&#8221; A great  quote by our beloved Prophet Muhammad. Don&#8217;t we want all of our brothers  and sisters to have what we have? And that something is something so  simple. Accessability in the mosque so that we can increase our faith,  without being criticized. I will never forget the time while praying in  Masjid al-Aqsa in Jerusalem, Palestine a mother was there with her three  year old daughter for the asr prayer during Ramadan. The child was  singing to herself and dancing as the prayer ensued. Afterwards, another  lady came and yelled at the mother so much, saying why would she bring  her small daughter and she couldn&#8217;t concentrate, to the point that the  lady left in tears. Will she be coming back to the mosque any time soon?  In fact, I have seen this same scene play out a few different times  throughout my life, and once that mother who left in tears, was me.</p>
<p>This   is a plea from a mother who is trying to raise the next generation of  Muslims. Please, I implore you, for the sake of God, have patience. For  God tells us in the Qur&#8217;an: &#8220;God is with those who are patient.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>The Importance of Time</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I came to recall an important truth that all of us are already aware of, at least subconsciously, but most of us fail to incorporate into our daily life. I was re-reading Surah Al-Asr with careful attention to the translation, which is as follows:
&#8220;By time, Indeed, mankind is in loss, Except  for  those  who  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://al-talib.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/time_management.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-617" style="margin: 10px; border: 0pt none;" title="time_management" src="http://al-talib.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/time_management-300x265.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="265" /></a>I came to recall an important truth that all of us are already aware of, at least subconsciously, but most of us fail to incorporate into our daily life. I was re-reading Surah Al-Asr with careful attention to the translation, which is as follows:</p>
<p>&#8220;By time, Indeed, mankind is in loss, Except  for  those  who  have   believed  and  done  righteous  deeds  and  advised  each other  to   truth  and  advised  each  other  to  patience.&#8221; (Qur&#8217;an, <a href="http://quran.com/103">103:1-3</a>)</p>
<p>Allah (s<em>ubhan wata&#8217;alah</em><em> </em>) establishes the default position for all mankind at the very beginning of the <em>ayah</em> (verse): a state of loss. That is followed by the exceptions to the default position, namely those people that have <em>iman</em><strong> </strong>(faith), do good deeds, propagate truths and exercise patience. Interestingly, all of these four exceptions allude to actions done consistently. Even <em>iman</em> itself is not a static state, but its level fluctuates in every individual, with the exception of prophets, depending on a person&#8217;s actions and worship. As such, we realize a hard fact: everyone is losing with the passage of time by default, with the exception of those that are doing righteous actions. With time, it&#8217;s use it or lose it. Contrary to what most of us would like to believe, there is no stationary state. If we are exactly the same person today as we were yesterday, we are actually losers under this definition. Certainly, amongst the major differences in this world and the next is time itself: this life is temporary, and the next life is eternal.</p>
<div>The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) stressed the importance of time in numerous <em>hadiths</em>, of which one is specially relevant. It is inspiring to note that the Prophet himself was a husband, statesman, military leader, adjudicator and a prophet at the same time. It is narrated by Abdullah ibn Masoud, one of the most famous companions, that, &#8220;A man shall be asked concerning five things on the day of resurrection: concerning his life, how he spent it; concerning his youth, how he grew old; concerning his wealth, whence he acquired it, and in what way he spent it; and what was it that he did with the knowledge that he had.&#8221; As apparent from the <em>hadith</em>, we will all be held accountable for the time that we were given on earth and how we used, especially our youth. Most of us sometimes do not realize that even wasted time, just like wasted money, is a blessing we will be questioned about.</div>
<div>I once heard an interesting story about Harun al-Rashid, the fifth and most famous Abbasid Caliph. He employed a professional jester for his entertainment. After one such performance, in a hysterical state after being overcome with laughter, Harun gave his jester a stick, and asserted that the jester was the most foolish man he had met, and instructed him to pass on the stick to anyone who exceeded him in foolishness. Some time passed, and Harun Rashid was on his death bed. The jester came to visit him, and after being allowed audience, asked Harun Rashid what he had done to prepare himself for the coming life. Harun burst into tears, and replied that he had done very little. At this point the jester gave him back the very same stick, and remarked that Harun was more foolish than him. Whether or not the story is true, we can all take home the point: take advantage of your time before it runs out.</div>
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		<title>A Date for all Ages</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2009 10:46:14 +0000</pubDate>
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Narrated by Ibn &#8220;Umar: The Prophet (Peace and Blessings be upon him) said, &#8220;Amongst the trees, there is a tree, the leaves of which do not fall and is like a Muslim. Tell me the name of that tree.&#8221; Everybody started thinking about the trees of the desert areas. And I thought of [...]]]></description>
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<p>Narrated by Ibn &#8220;Umar: The Prophet (Peace and Blessings be upon him) said, &#8220;Amongst the trees, there is a tree, the leaves of which do not fall and is like a Muslim. Tell me the name of that tree.&#8221; Everybody started thinking about the trees of the desert areas. And I thought of the date-palm tree but felt too shy to answer. The others then asked, &#8220;What is that tree, O Allah&#8221;s Apostle?&#8221; He replied, &#8220;It is the date-palm tree.&#8221; ? (Bukhari, 58)<br />
In early Islamic history it was customary for the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) to place a chewed date in the mouth of a newborn baby, and the baby would feel soothed and cease to cry. In Surah Mariam, in the Holy Qur&#8221;an, an anecdote is told of how Mary (PBUH), in her pain of childbirth, was driven to a palm tree where she was commanded by a voice to shake its trunk as fresh, ripe dates would fall down for her to eat. During Ramadan, Muslims all over the world tend to break their fast with dates, just as the Prophet (PBUH) did.<br />
The date palm and the date Of all the fruits which exist today, none has been heavily emphasized, by the Qur&#8221;an or the Sunnah of the Prophet (PBUH), more than the date. The Qur&#8221;an mentions the date palm at least 20 times. Why? What is the significance of this fruit? It is wrinkled, dry, no larger than an iPod Shuffle, and commonly mistaken for a prune. Yet, other than pomegranates, olives, and figs, it has been one of the most important fruits and staples for not just Muslims, but civilizations dating as far back as Ancient Egypt. In fact, there is an old Arab saying which says, There are more uses from the date palms, than there are days in a year.? It is time to put this saying to the test and discover the role of the date in Islam.<br />
The date palm is believed to have originated around the Persian Gulf and was very abundant between the Nile and Euphrates rivers. Around 4,000 B.C., its cultivation was widespread in the Middle East and North Africa, as Arab nomads would grow date palms wherever they traveled. It eventually was introduced in Spain, and soon after, it was grown in many European regions including the French Riviera, southern Italy, and Greece. However, the date palm did not find too much success in such regions due to specific conditions”long, hot growing season, low humidity, absence of summer rain, and soil types with low salt levels and free draining sands”needed for it to grow. Today, the date palm flourishes in such countries like Algeria, Morocco, Tunisia, Egypt, Sudan, Arabia, and Iran. Iraq leads all countries, as the number one producer of dates, with 22 million date palms producing over 600,000 tons of dates annually.<script type="text/javascript"><!--
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D(["mb","u003cbru003enOne region of the world, where the date palm has found success in is Southern California, specifically, the Coachella Valley. Imported from Iraq and Egypt in 1890 by the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA), the Coachella Valley is responsible for 95 percent of the nation"s date crop. In fact, it is celebrated in the annual Indio Date Festival near Riverside. Not only has the fruit made its way to the United States, but the culture behind it has found its way here too. Examples include the naming of towns after Arabic cities like Mecca and Baghdad. The Indio Date Festival hosts events in which they perform plays on the Arabian Nights. However, according to Jonathan Friedlander, Assistant Director in Near Eastern Studies at UCLA, the incorporation of the Arabic? culture in such places is merely meant to sell. The annual Indio Date Festival is only a form of advertisement that utilizes Arabic? culture to sell and promote the date fruit.u003cbru003enThe date fruit has for centuries been praised for its sweet taste, but just as the Arab saying claims, it has close to 400 different uses, if not more. Structurally, the branches of the date palm have served as a source of shade amidst the blazing, hot desert sun. During the time of the Prophet (PBUH), date palms were crucial in the growth of early Muslim communities. Its leafstalks were used by many scribes to record the chapters and verses of the Qur"an. Early mosques were built using palm fronds woven together and the pillars of the mosques were made from the trunks of palm trees.u003cbru003enBesides the structural uses, the date fruit has had many culinary and medicinal uses that help explain many of the verses of the Qur"an and Hadith of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). Dates are an excellent source of iron, potassium, calcium, magnesium, sulfur, copper, and phosphorous. They possess rich natural fibers and vitamins including thiamine, riboflavin, biotin, folic and ascorbic acid. Today, they are used to make syrups, jams, ice creams, and sodas. They are high-energy fruits that are recommended for the health conscious. Dates are also easily digested. This explains why the Prophet (PBUH) would break his fast with them. Hunger is caused by a shortage of sugar in the blood, and not by an empty stomach (as usually assumed). Dates help elevate blood sugar levels as soon as they are consumed, instantly satisfying hunger.",1]
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One region of the world, where the date palm has found success in is Southern California, specifically, the Coachella Valley. Imported from Iraq and Egypt in 1890 by the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA), the Coachella Valley is responsible for 95 percent of the nation&#8221;s date crop. In fact, it is celebrated in the annual Indio Date Festival near Riverside. Not only has the fruit made its way to the United States, but the culture behind it has found its way here too. Examples include the naming of towns after Arabic cities like Mecca and Baghdad. The Indio Date Festival hosts events in which they perform plays on the Arabian Nights. However, according to Jonathan Friedlander, Assistant Director in Near Eastern Studies at UCLA, the incorporation of the Arabic? culture in such places is merely meant to sell. The annual Indio Date Festival is only a form of advertisement that utilizes Arabic? culture to sell and promote the date fruit.<br />
The date fruit has for centuries been praised for its sweet taste, but just as the Arab saying claims, it has close to 400 different uses, if not more. Structurally, the branches of the date palm have served as a source of shade amidst the blazing, hot desert sun. During the time of the Prophet (PBUH), date palms were crucial in the growth of early Muslim communities. Its leafstalks were used by many scribes to record the chapters and verses of the Qur&#8221;an. Early mosques were built using palm fronds woven together and the pillars of the mosques were made from the trunks of palm trees.<br />
Besides the structural uses, the date fruit has had many culinary and medicinal uses that help explain many of the verses of the Qur&#8221;an and Hadith of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). Dates are an excellent source of iron, potassium, calcium, magnesium, sulfur, copper, and phosphorous. They possess rich natural fibers and vitamins including thiamine, riboflavin, biotin, folic and ascorbic acid. Today, they are used to make syrups, jams, ice creams, and sodas. They are high-energy fruits that are recommended for the health conscious. Dates are also easily digested. This explains why the Prophet (PBUH) would break his fast with them. Hunger is caused by a shortage of sugar in the blood, and not by an empty stomach (as usually assumed). Dates help elevate blood sugar levels as soon as they are consumed, instantly satisfying hunger.<script type="text/javascript"><!--
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D(["mb","u003cbru003enSome of the medicinal uses of dates include being an excellent muscle stimulant. Early Muslims who would engage in battle used to consume them as a source of energy, and would survive for days on just dates and water. Dates can also reduce pain sensation and heart rate, which is why the Prophet (PBUH) would place chewed dates in a newborn"s mouth. Any pain the child feels after birth ceases, and the baby is able to calm down almost instantaneously. Pregnant women are encouraged to eat dates during pregnancy because experiments have shown that the muscles of the uterus are stimulated in the last months of pregnancy. This allows for dilation on the time of delivery and a reduction in bleeding”explaining the anecdote in Surah Mariam. Dates are also used in the treatment of bronchitis, tumors, hemorrhoids, poisonous bites, night blindness, skin allergies, anxiety, and depression. The American Cancer Society recommends that a person consume 20-35 grams of dietary fiber a day, and according to Family Nutrition Online, dates are excellent sources of dietary fiber with one date containing 3 grams.u003cbru003enAnd in the earth are neighboring tracts, and gardens of vines and green crops...yet some of them We make more excellent than others to eat. Verily! In these things there are signs for the people who understand? (Holy Qur"an 13:3). Allah (SWT) has created for the world an eclectic selection of plants, yet He chose a few to be more excellent than the others. The date palm is one example of these plants, which truly has more uses than there are days in a year.? It is one of the many blessings Allah (SWT) has bestowed for Muslims, and it is a tree we should always respect and protect for the sake of Allah. Indeed, Muslims are like the date palm, for we live in the toughest conditions and always find a way to survive, and better yet, a way to assist the world. ¢u003cbru003enu003cbru003eThe Pursuit of Knowledgeu003cbru003eAn Alternative to Studying Abroadu003cbru003eBy: Shazeb Qadiru003cbru003eu003cbru003eMany devout, young Muslims are opting to travel abroad, often to the Middle East, in pursuit of sound Islamic knowledge.  The numbers of such individuals have certainly been on the rise in recent decades and for good reason.  Studying Islam in the Middle East affords the student of knowledge a number of distinct benefits:",1]
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Some of the medicinal uses of dates include being an excellent muscle stimulant. Early Muslims who would engage in battle used to consume them as a source of energy, and would survive for days on just dates and water. Dates can also reduce pain sensation and heart rate, which is why the Prophet (PBUH) would place chewed dates in a newborn&#8221;s mouth. Any pain the child feels after birth ceases, and the baby is able to calm down almost instantaneously. Pregnant women are encouraged to eat dates during pregnancy because experiments have shown that the muscles of the uterus are stimulated in the last months of pregnancy. This allows for dilation on the time of delivery and a reduction in bleeding”explaining the anecdote in Surah Mariam. Dates are also used in the treatment of bronchitis, tumors, hemorrhoids, poisonous bites, night blindness, skin allergies, anxiety, and depression. The American Cancer Society recommends that a person consume 20-35 grams of dietary fiber a day, and according to Family Nutrition Online, dates are excellent sources of dietary fiber with one date containing 3 grams.<br />
And in the earth are neighboring tracts, and gardens of vines and green crops&#8230;yet some of them We make more excellent than others to eat. Verily! In these things there are signs for the people who understand? (Holy Qur&#8221;an 13:3). Allah (SWT) has created for the world an eclectic selection of plants, yet He chose a few to be more excellent than the others. The date palm is one example of these plants, which truly has more uses than there are days in a year.? It is one of the many blessings Allah (SWT) has bestowed for Muslims, and it is a tree we should always respect and protect for the sake of Allah. Indeed, Muslims are like the date palm, for we live in the toughest conditions and always find a way to survive, and better yet, a way to assist the world. ¢</p>
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